Let me get this out from the very beginning: I hate halloween. I always have and, I expect, I always will. I feel like I have some valid reasons for this. The first is that halloween, quite frankly, is scary. I have never been big on being frightened and some of the stuff that is out in the Walmart or hanging up around my neighborhood is pee-in-your-pants terrifying. And I feel that way now! You should have seen my as a kid! I spent most of October with my eyes shut during the day and sleep deprived at night. (I subscribe to the theory that it is better to see the monsters coming. This prevents any meaningful rest.)
My second reason is that I have never been a big fan of eee-vil! Sure, most of the horror around the holiday is cartoonish and fantastical, but I'm too sensitive to handle it in large doses. It affects me when I am forced to see scenes of dastardly deeds and monstrous...monsters (sorry, couldn't think of a better alliteration) so I find the whole season personally distasteful. For those of you who know think of me as a huge wuss, you have hit the nail on the head and can skip down to the bottom. For the rest of you who have a misplaced faith in my overall manliness (thanks, Julie), please keep reading.
It is no surprise then, that it has always been quite easy for me to buy into the church's method for dealing with halloween, namely condemning it as a whole and ignoring it until it goes away. I preferred the safety of the harvest party, where the scariest thing you might see is a fat Zorro or a dilapidated angel. And it was easy to judge and dismiss the holiday because, if we are honest, there are things that get celebrated that God hates. So for years, I hunkered down and waited for the last week of October to pass me by.
A couple of years ago, I began to rethink my position on Halloween. It happened when I moved into my current home and was mobbed on the 31st by hundreds of kids looking for candy. I just couldn't believe the amount of families that were out in our neighborhood and were coming to my door! I spend a ton of time as a pastor trying to come up with ideas on how to gather a crowd so that I can show them Jesus and here was one that was ready made and reliable as the calendar! Up until that epiphany, my only approach to them was a bag or two of cheap candy and a general desire for the night to be over. Seems wrong to me...seems really wrong. Instead of reaching out to the many families that are coming to our homes each year, the church as a whole, and me in particular, would rather do what is easy and comfortable and hide away from a world that we disapprove of. The thought makes me feel a bit sick and I have confessed my failings to the Lord and asked for forgiveness for missing out on such a great opportunity to demonstrate His great love.
So what is my approach to Halloween now and how is Riverside responding to this opportunity? Check back tomorrow and I will share what's happening with our church...
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